Hello Folks, I am back after a long silence.I know the title doesn’t look that attractive, but go through the rest of the post and you will agree that I am making sense here.
Believing that everything is either black or white, no shades of grey, is a sign of a very naive person. Live and learn, and you'll find that kindness, love, tolerance, mercy - all these are only possible by looking at the big picture, instead of focusing on the rulebook.
Do you remember those pantyhose "one size fits all"? Well, they didn't fit anybody. They are like your black and white rule. You can never know all the circumstances of another person's life. If you're going to apply that Rule, you're going to be cruel, unfeeling, intolerant, and judgmental. People who have to have rigid rules are frightened people. They don't trust themselves, they don't want to open up and experience true feelings, and they don't want to exercise their little grey cells.
I'm selfish. I want to be in charge of my own brain. I am supposed to use it. Practice good selfishness.
This abyss you mentioned? What scary story have you fallen prey to?
The black and white Rule makers always want to rule by fear.
Do you remember those pantyhose "one size fits all"? Well, they didn't fit anybody. They are like your black and white rule. You can never know all the circumstances of another person's life. If you're going to apply that Rule, you're going to be cruel, unfeeling, intolerant, and judgmental. People who have to have rigid rules are frightened people. They don't trust themselves, they don't want to open up and experience true feelings, and they don't want to exercise their little grey cells.
I'm selfish. I want to be in charge of my own brain. I am supposed to use it. Practice good selfishness.
This abyss you mentioned? What scary story have you fallen prey to?
The black and white Rule makers always want to rule by fear.
Priyanka aka Pranks.!
Well I Agree and Disagree
ReplyDeleteLike is just not being about black and white...life is full technicolour 70 mm with Dolby Surround sound..so you can feel it ,hear it, see it all the time but what you choose to feel, hear and see is totally up to you...So, being an optimist, a change agent, a passionate lover, a reliable friend all is a part of the multitude of colours you display...
So it Black and White and Grey and Orange and all other colours you can possibly think of :)
Gray area is something that is created by us. Ideally there cant be this situation. If we ckme across one then something is wrong somewhere. It doesnt imply being naive.
ReplyDeleteAlso ig you roll back your memory you will realize there has never been a gray area if your own thought process is clear. This again doesnt imply one being adamant. Its just that you have your mind clear.
Regarding controlling brain... this again is state of mind your own brain wants you to think. It is so fast nd precise that brain keeps sensing and adapting to situation basis which the decisions are taken. One cant control brain but can work in coordination with it to make world beautiful around themselves
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